So I was blessed to be accepted to all but one school to where I applied (*I did NOT apply to any T14 schools). I was also incredibly blessed to get scholarship at them all (ranging from $5,000 to $40,000 / year). I am a non-traditional student with kids, (and a full-time job that I'm taking a sabbatical from for 1L), who would either stay local and attend a school barely in the 100s, so my family is not uprooted -- or I can go to a higher ranked school (50-70 range) where I'd also be happy living...but would have to hope my spouse can find a job, the kids aren't waitlisted on daycare/preschool, that we can find a home and sell ours, etc. etc. etc.
I'm struggling with my decision. Do I stay local at the University of Buffalo and not change my life drastically? The local school probably would work out the best financially, not only because the spouse could keep their job, but we would already have living, etc., figured out -- so I'm JUST looking at tuition/fees/books in that case. Or do I go to either higher / lower ranked schools both in NYS or New England where I would love to live (e.g., I'm from CT and always imagined my children growing up there) where I may not have as much scholarship (e.g., UConn offered the least) or maybe more scholarship but cost of living is higher?
If I stay local, I can continue my job post-1L (I am a professor). However, almost all my instruction is online classes, so I could technically go anywhere; I just have to put in one more year at my professor gig after taking the sabbatical for 1L. On sabbatical, my salary is cut in half, but I'm still paid (so there's that). I could also just quit completely, but that's not ideal because I carry the healt benefits, and well, half salary is better than no salary. If we move, we'd be going back to where I have friends / family, but is very HCOL ("gold coast" / Connecticut; Massachusetts). If I choose one of the highest offers (Albany), if I decided to go a political route that might be smart because that is our state capital. In terms of goals, I'm not looking Big Law. I'm already a professor so I don't care so much about T14 / academia. I'm more interested in children, immigration.
I should also mention I placed first deposits at all 8 schools I got good awards from because I was hoping to use them all as leverage. I just withdrew from two, knowing I probably wouldn't realistically go to them. However, I'm really struggling with the others. Two emails just came in asking for a confirmed enrollment form to be completed. These emails strongly suggested I withdraw from the other institutions, which I get, and they do not have 2nd deposits. Everywhere else does.
I'm very torn. And can I also say how hard it was to withdraw?? I just withdrew from MSU and Syracuse. Considering withdrawing from Case Western because they offered the least in comparison to total cost of attendance.
Thanks for tips / commiseration.
So there are a couple things you can try, and scaffold yourself out of each as you practice (in other words, try one for a while, then slowly reduce the number of times you do that strategy).
Read out loud.
Read with your pencil under each word, or use a ruler to keep the line straight so your eyes have to focus on that specific line. Sometimes, when stressed/ tired, people's eyes will jump to various places in the stimulus.
Try using a sticky note to cover the answer choices so you aren't overwhelmed by the text.
Use a highlighter for now, and mark off key transition words such as 'however', 'and', 'therefore', 'so', 'but', 'yet'. That might help you with parsing out the sentences better.
You could also try reading 2x, where the first time you only read the key stuff -- so focus on subject and predicate (verb) phrases only, skipping over the things in commas (the extra info/clauses). That will help you get a main sense of what's going on. Then on the 2x through, read the whole thing, and make sure those clauses (within commas) aren't changing the meaning of anything. Often, that's where "filler" is.
Lastly, if timed, sometimes it's just a way your brain is telling you to SKIP IT and move to the next question -- and then go back and look at it fresh when you've tried something else. Sometimes it's amazing how clear the answer becomes when you step away from it for a moment.
You could also get a tutor -- @ is amazing in helping you parse the language of sentences to figure out the meaning, especially when it's subtle.