its just business. just like your stats are an opp for them to boost their ranking your game is to maximize your return (i.e. scholarship and best school). why would they hold against you if you make them look even better now! Do it
I wouldn't write anything until you're ready to negotiate, accept or withdraw. I never responded to a school after acceptance and scholarship offer and then they randomly gave me an unsolicited increase from $15k/yr to $25k/yr.
@lsatings Congratulations on an amazing opportunity! I have so much respect for you and your deliberate evaluation about your future. As a mom of daughters not far behind you in age, I would hope they would seize such an opportunity without regrets to ...