So, I got accepted to my number 2 choice today with a very good scholarship. I am thrilled about this, but it does create a conundrum.
For my number one choice, I wrote a "why school x" essay and ended it with "if accepted, I will withdraw my other applications immediately". at the time, I honestly thought i had a shot at number 1 and didn't think I had a shot at number 2 at all. the other schools i applied to are very distant for me compared to these two and the two schools are similar enough to where if school no 1accepted me but didn't offer me money, i would seriously regret having to withdraw from school number 2 and losing out on the scholarship money. I applied to school number 1 first, but haven't heard anything yet, it is currently "In Review" status. So my question is should I 1) withdraw from school number 1 now. 2) is there some other option that i am not seeing that is an ethical alternative?
thanks
@selenesteelman792 said:
Congratulations on your offer of admission and your merit scholarship! You should make the best decision for you and your future. Your Why X essay is not a binding promise. School 1 has not even made a final decision on your file and you don't know when that might happen. It is possible they might not get to your file for days or weeks, you don't know. If you are getting close to the deposit deadline for School 2, you could reach out to School 1 and politely ask about your application status because you have a deposit deadline for another school but you are still interested in School 1. School 1 will likely ask you about your other offer and award, but if not, you should give this information so School 1 can "make a fully informed decision" when they do. If you haven't heard back from School 1 with a final decision by School 2's first deposit deadline, you should put down a deposit so you have a place to attend come August. If, after the first deposit deadline, you are indeed admitted to School 1, then you can decide which school presents the better opportunity. You may have to eat that first seat deposit with School 2, but in the big picture, it is a small price to pay for the right learning environment for you. Good luck!
thanks @selenesteelman792!! I have to say that the help I have gotten from you and @alenisleon902 on the weekly calls and within the admissions course has been a huuuuuuge help for my cycle!! :smiley: