My roommate keep inviting her friends to our apt...

LSATaker

Feel really stressful...
They chat in the living room and I cannot sleep well.
She does not let me know in advance even though I asked her so many times.
How should I tell her?
After she invite a frined A then she invited a friend B...and it's a male this time. He has already been here for a week and before that he stayed on Friday. Sat. Sun...
Is this normal???
I told her I'm studying for LSAT but...
Sorry not related to lSAT question

Cant Get Right

Yeah, that's pretty normal, lol. By having roommates, we make certain tradeoffs: Lower rent and split utilities exchanged for shared living space. A week is starting to push how long would typically be appropriate to have a guest. At about two weeks, he either needs to beat it or else start paying rent, haha.

LSATaker

@"Cant Get Right"
I see...:(
Sounds like he is going to stay more than 2 weeks cuz she said he has business in this city.
How should I tell her if he is going to stay more than 2 weeks?
...."Can you pay the rent?"

jeremybentham

slip some zzzquil into her coffee -- problem solved

Alex

@LSATaker said:
Feel really stressful...
They chat in the living room and I cannot sleep well.
She does not let me know in advance even though I asked her so many times.
How should I tell her?
After she invite a frined A then she invited a friend B...and it's a male this time. He has already been here for a week and before that he stayed on Friday. Sat. Sun...
Is this normal???
I told her I'm studying for LSAT but...
Sorry not related to lSAT question

Roommates can be tricky because if you cause conflict, then you're stuck with them.

Is it normal? Ehhh..No, but nothing is normal with certain roommates..... unfortunately.

I think you need to talk to her again and really let her know that this isn't ok with you. Be kind, but direct and firm.

tanes256

@LSATaker ole dude would definitely not be there that long without paying something!

Cant Get Right

@LSATaker said:
How should I tell her if he is going to stay more than 2 weeks?

Lol, I dunno man. I mean, it kind of depends on y'all's relationship. I was really close friends with my old roommates, so I'd've just given them shit about it until they got right, lol. That doesn't work if you're not tight though, so you just got to deal with whatever your situation is.

wilderness

Friend A
Friend B - stayed for a week, Gender: Male

This is a simple In Out Grouping Game.

In Group: Two slots
Out group: undefined slots

Rule: If you're (1) an uninvited guest or (2) a male, you're out

The In Group has been filled already by pieces X (you), Y (your roommate), thus pushing all the other pieces incl. uninvited guests and males out

Ez Pz

Realistically, yeah you can't determine when or when she can't have male suitors at her house

Alex

@wilderness You are the MVP hahaha! Thank you for making my day

tanes256

@wilderness awesome! No BR needed on this one! Bubble your answer and move on with confidence!

Sprinkles

And that's why @wilderness will be getting a 180 lol

fudgiethewhale1

What is on the lease? There must be something there about length of stay for guests. By staying for days without leaving you have another tenant.

LSATaker

@v.gavryushenko
It does not say...
She also does not show me the contract she had with the landlord so...
I'm afraid this continues to happen and especially the day before the test...
I cannot sleep well with earplug and even when I tried it sometimes I can hear their conversation.

DEC_LSAT

@LSATaker said:
I'm afraid this continues to happen and especially the day before the test...
I cannot sleep well with earplug and even when I tried it sometimes I can hear their conversation.

i completely understand your pain. Maybe talk to your landlord (if she doesn't own the place)? also, plan b (if she doesn't change her behaviour) is to move out! She sounds very disrespectful and honestly, if you're not struggling with money it's worth losing a bit of money to get out. when you're looking for roommates, it's important to establish rules from the get go. I am assuming this didn't occur with your roommate. Another suggestion of mine would be to sleep at a hotel 1 or 2 days before the test if she has guests. Good luck with your roommate.

LSATaker

@DEC_LSAT
Thanks,
Yeah I will talk to her first and if she does not change I guess I have to move out or find a hotel then...thanks for the advice!

DEC_LSAT

@LSATaker said:
Yeah I will talk to her first and if she does not change I guess I have to move out or find a hotel then...thanks for the advice!

no problem, good luck! i hope it goes well!